It's a question we all need to ask ourselves.
The angel asks the question of Hagar in the wilderness
even though the angel probably knew.
The angel's reply ~ Return and Repent.
And Hagar calls on the Name of the LORD Who spoke to her,
"You are a God of seeing." Gen 16:13
A God Who sees all the affliction, betrayal, aloneness, confusion, and trials.
"Walk before Me and be blameless." Gen 17:1
"Be perfect as your Heavenly Father was perfect." Mat 5:48
No one, not one, can be blameless perfect.
So, fall forward on the God Who Sees.
Same stars that guided Abraham in the darkest of night.
Every day's end, he sat under the stars
that were a Promise to him of what God would do.
And He gazed and he waited.
And he remembered the God Who Sees.